Judging from my actions of late, I am Stage 3 Clingy.
STAGE THREE: The Good Girl
The good girl typically gives her thoughts out unintentionally. She’s the one giggling at your jokes (even the stupid ones) and waiting by her cell phone until your next appearance. Available to see you nine times out of ten, and willing to drop her own life in a heartbeat to accommodate you and the relationship that is unfolding. The good girl will cook you four-course meals within the first month of the relationship and ensure she looks flawless each and every time she sees you. You probably meet the family early on too.
Pros: At face value, she seems perfect. You’re probably the most important person in her life, and very few things can break you apart. She's selfless and giving, and there is a guarantee of commitment and dedication.
Cons: She surrenders herself entirely and there is nothing challenging/stimulating left for you to pursue. This often leads to boredom and curiosity, eventually causing distance in the relationship…probably from you.
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Well well well. I didn't know being nice was such a flaw. I guess deep down I've always been groomed to be like this (by the nuns? :P ). Chalk it up to the finishing school/nunnery that was my whole high school experience, I always thought being polite and feminine was the way to do things.
Feminist tendencies aside, I've often toyed with the idea that I could have it all and be this awesome wife and mother and career woman in one. And there's nothing wrong with doing something special when you can, right?
Feminist tendencies aside, I've often toyed with the idea that I could have it all and be this awesome wife and mother and career woman in one. And there's nothing wrong with doing something special when you can, right?
This kind of clingy gets so tiring! Being perfect and wanting things to go well all the time takes its toll and honestly, just being yourself is more important. And more sustainable. And there is nothing attractive about being clingy.
